I have excellent babysitters/nannies that help us out. And, with four kids and both of us traveling for work, boy, do we need it?!? When I tell people that we have great sitters they typically ask me how I found them. It’s hard to find good help from word-of-mouth. If you hear about someone who’s great, guess what? They’re already busy helping someone else. Or they’re busy with school or extracurricular activities.
Moms and Dads, the struggle is real….
So here’s how we found our awesome helpers: We have used Care.com twice now to find regular babysitters/nannies for our litter. And we’ve been pleased with the result both times- in fact, I’m pretty sure we’ve had our first babysitter that we found there for over two years now. Time flies when you have good help I guess!
We recently found another babysitter- only because our regulars are getting busier as they “grow up” (they’re nursing students and school and “real jobs” keep them from helping out as much). The process was good again.
I’ll admit that I was very leery of using Care.com. It seemed so unthinkable to find a babysitter online. I mean, they’re your kids!!! But, like I said above, the struggle was real. Really real. We need the help with our work schedules to maintain sanity in our household.
Here’s what I liked about it:
You can post a position with exactly what you’re looking for in a sitter from hours to age to experience, etc. Do you want them to have reliable transportation? Great. Add that to your requirements.
You can view their profile- not just their photo but also their experience and information. I sorted through these carefully. I don’t care what people look like but it is important to have that so that when you meet them, if you want to meet them in a public place, you’ll know who to be looking for. You can avoid awkwardly walking up to someone in Starbucks and asking if they are so and so there to interview for a babysitting job.
You can ask for certain certifications such as CPR and first aid. This is important to me if I’m going to leave my kids alone with them. Our sitters are all nursing students, so we feel very comfortable.
There is the ability to read and post reviews about the providers. This is very helpful in seeing what other families’ experiences were.
There’s the ability to message on the system with them without giving them your phone number or address, etc. (See below for the flip side of this too)
If you’re interested in Au Pairs as an option, you can look at different companies and some of the Au Pairs that they offer. We seriously explored this as an option but since we currently don’t want to pay for that level of care when the girls are still in pre-school, which would be an additional cost. Oh, and our extra bedroom is currently serving as my office too, so that would be something we’d have to work out. Maybe someday.
There’s a good search feature. That is an obvious must. As you are reviewing them you can add them to your favorites so you can easily find them later. See below image for these search filters available.
The app is pretty good as well. If you’re like me, the time in between errands, work, etc. is not at your computer so being able to quickly look at this on your mobile device is very helpful. You also have the option to get notifications. I personally hate phone notifications. My semi-ADHD personallity gets overwhelmed by them so I’ve got them turned off. It’s nice to have the options should I ever get in a position where I really, really needed help quickly though.
Additional options that I haven’t used but could also be helpful:
If you’re looking for child care centers, you can look at them online- although, there aren’t that many reviews online for that so you’d be better off reviewing them on another search engine than this site. I also would say that there’s a good chance they don’t have all centers on here since it’s likely the center has to pay them to be hosted.
Family childcare (what I always called in-home daycare) is an option you may want to explore. You can view their information, reviews, and whether they’re certified, etc.
If you’re in need of someone with experience with special needs, that is something that you can easily search for.
They have a search function for senior/elderly care, which is great if you have a family member you may need assistance with.
You can pay your babysitters through them. We don’t do this but if we were having someone full time this might be something we’d look into, so it could be a good feature if that’s what you’re considering.
You can schedule them online. Again, we don’t do that. I find that texting our sitters works just fine and I feel like it’s more personal. It’s always nice to have the option I guess though.
Do you need housekeeping or other help around the house? You can post a job or search for candidates on here.
Do you need help with your fur babies? You can get a dog sitter or walker or even someone to feed your pet lizard on here. Our cat fends for herself while we’re gone most of the time but we’ll be looking into this if we ever go on an extended vacation.
Not sure if you feel confident in their record? You can do background checks on here as a extra precaution.
You could put yourself out there as a caregiver/provider as well. I’ve not tried it but sometimes I feel like, hey, what’s a few more when you have four??? Just kidding but some extra money might be good.
What I would change:
I’d love for it to cost less. This year the subscription was $168.00 without tax. I’ll admit that I feel as if I’ve gotten my money’s worth out of it just finding our gem of a babysitter and knowing that I can find additional help pretty easily, but still…. that’s a lot. The only good thing about it is that it automatically renews for me yearly so I don’t really have to think about it too much until I’m up for renewal and it shows up on my statement. I think there are shorter subscriptions but it’s nice to be able to find help all year long and the yearly subscription is the best rate available.
I had a hard time getting our sitter’s contact information outside of the site, which doesn’t allow you to share phone numbers. You can call them through the site but not text. Please, please correct me if this is “user error” on my part. I think this is a safety thing but it did make it harder than I’d like. I had to get her email to have her send me her phone number so I could text her. (You know us (barely) millennials and younger- we like to text each other rather than actually talk to someone on the phone)
There you go- Care.com- from a busy working mom. It’s been good to us. I’d love to hear your tips on finding good sitters/nannies. What has worked best for you???
ALSO: For the record- I am NOT getting paid or any discount from Care.com, although if anyone from there is reading this and wants to give me a discount, I’d take it!!!
Today was a great day with the girls. They love to “pay kitten” (aka Play Kitchen). They’re very creative and I only had to retrieve one chewed up plastic French fry from Kate’s mouth. I call that a success.
People often ask if they get along well. And I always answer with “Eh.” Their personalities are very much their own, as are their looks but on occasion we will catch a few super sweet moments between the two sisters when they think no one is watching.
And it warms my heart!
As you can see, we moved their rooms around so that they now have Anna’s kitchen and table that she’s “too big for” now. If it didn’t make these two so happy that might make me a bit sad. Such is life!
Downstairs in the real kitchen, I’ve almost made it a whole week back on Weight Watchers. My goal is to get healthy and fit back into my old clothes, at least the few pre-twin pieces left after last year’s KonMari-phase cleared out my closet of anything that “I didn’t love.”
This year I’m not doing resolutions since last year failed so miserably. I think the Balanced app is a great idea but took too much time. I quit about a month in.
In 2018, I’m just trying to get back on track with goal setting and one of my goals is to get healthy. Weight Watchers has been good to me before. I lost 40 lbs in college.
And now I get to lose it all over again. What a great opportunity (typed in very sarcastic tone)! The good things is, Weight Watchers seems to have done some good updates and the app is super user friendly.
I’ll probably be finding all kinds of tricks to eat as much as I can for as little points as I can so stay tuned!
P.S. If anyone has any tips on replacing tasty coffee creamers with a low point alternative, PLEASE let me know!
DISCLOSURE: Due to the recent iPhone update my i’s are now malfunctioning. I️ am NOT going back through to fix. I’m too frustrated. Sorry folks.
It’s borderline Migraine Monday instead of Mommy Review Monday so this will be a sort one today so I can get off to bed. I should apologize to those who get actual migraines because I️ realize my headache isn’t really a migraine since I️ can manage to look at the screen.
I’ll thank the black beans all over the floor and the screaming toddlers for the tension headache. With that said, I’ll move onto our review of the day, the ezpz Happy Mat, without which there would’ve been many more beans on the floor.
Cost. $24.99 may seem like a lot but if you use I️t every meal, I️t pays for itself pretty quickly.
Hardiness. It’s made of silicone so you know it’s tough. And unlike your friends’ fake boobs, these don’t have to be hand-washed. You can stick them in the lower rack of your dishwasher time after time.
Dividers. Since so many kids are funny about not mixing foods, this is a great feature.
Protection. The full placemats give your table the armor it needs against banging silverware and/or sippy cups.
Stay-put-ness. I️ realize that’s a made up word but you get the point. No pates thrown across the room. As I️ said earlier, had we served black beans on a regular plate, they would’ve been everywhere. This plate-mat stayed in place throughout Clara’s mid-dinner temper tantrum.
Fit on High Chair Trays. They don’t fit on high chair trays. I️ know that’s not really what they’re made for so I️ really have a hard time declaring that a con but I️ do want to make sure no one assumes they’ll work that way. They do make a smaller version, the Mini Mat but it still may or may not work on your high chair tray.
Only Stick on Hard, Level Surfaces. Again, this seems common sense but they don’t stick or suction themselves down to fabric tablecloths or very unlevel surface. They’re still nice to use to protect your nice fabric tablecloth but there is the chance they could still move. We used a nylon table cloth at Halloween though and it still worked pretty well.
All together, these Happy Mats are what the brand name explains, ezpz. They’re a great gift idea, especially paired with these bibs. I’d buy another. In fact, I may buy another set for when one set is dirty. I’m not sure if that’s lazy or smart.
For years my kiddos wore mostly Children’s Place and Gymboree clothes. And they still wear a lot of it because we can occasionally get really good deals. Oh, and because Mammy buys them a ton of beautiful clothes from there. I’m always thankful for whatever we’re given. Gifted clothes are the best clothes.
But there are times when we do buy our own kids clothes. And, in the past couple of years, I’ve been drawn to Garanimals, the brand carried by Walmart. I’m actually a big fan. Here’s the pros and cons:
Quality. You may be questioning me at this point but I’m telling the truth. We’re hard on our clothes. Really hard. Clara and Kate (the twins) go to day care so we’ve got lots of assorted stains every day and they play pretty rough on the playground. They give the pavement and wood chips a run for their money. Plus, laundry sorting isn’t our strongest attribute so they get thrown in with other stuff that that might not be the best- think clothes with velcro, etc. Yet, the Garanimals clothes still hold up really well through it all without fading or piling like the Gymboree and Children’s Place clothes tend to do faster.
Cuteness. The clothes are pretty darn cute. Don’t get me wrong. There are some graphic tee designs that I’m not crazy about. But that’s true for all brands. Clara is pretty picky about her clothes and she still likes a lot of them. Yes, I realize two (tomorrow) is a little early to be picky about clothing but that girl has a mind of her own.
Price. When you have to buy as many clothes as I do, price is a factor. The price is right. They’re always priced well. You don’t have to worry about coupons or sales to get a good deal. Plus, the kitty shirt pictured above is only $3.88. Pair them with this adorable set of French Terry Jogging pants, also Garanimals brand, for $4.88, and you’ve got a pretty cute play outfit for less than $10.
Convenience. A lot of time my only time to shop is early morning or late at night. That’s why shopping at Walmart is convenient for me. Plus, now you can shop online with free 2-day shipping. You can’t beat that. Ok, Ok. So you can if you find free one-day shipping with Amazon Prime but I bet you’ll have a harder time finding this for cheaper than Walmart.com.
Mix and Matchable. Matchable may or may not be a real word but regardless, you parents know exactly what I mean. Most of their stuff you can mix and match, as an added bonus, which is helpful when you want to just grab something quickly (or if they’ve decided they’re going to dress themselves). They even have solid colors that can sometimes be really hard to find (which work great for embroidery and screen-printing if you’re crafty like that- I recommend washing them first though).
Walmart. Yes, I realize that I just said above that going to Walmart is convenient but sometimes it’s not. If you go at the wrong time, you’ll find it totally crowded and unorganized. Some folks don’t like Walmart because their merchandise comes from other countries, etc. but…. I’m not going there since that’s a politically fueled can of worms that I don’t choose to open tonight.
Cheesy prints. I also said above that the clothes are cute. And most are but there are a few I think aren’t so cute and some that are just downright tacky. This is really just a personal preference though. What I might think is adorable, you may think is an abomination. This is play clothes, so does it really matter?!?
Bottom-line: For our family, Garanimals baby and toddler clothes have been a great value. I’ll continue to buy them. In fact, I’m about to buy a few more sets of tights tonight for the girls because they got some adorable shirts for their birthday on Saturday that I need to pair something with.