Today’s prompt for (Not so) Tall Tale Tuesday is:
Write about the woman who has had the greatest impact on your life.
This didn’t take more than a few seconds for me to know exactly who I’d write about- my Mom.
We’d both freely admit that we don’t always agree about everything- far from it. But I have a long list of the great reasons she’s had the greatest impact on my life and what I think makes her a great mom:
- She’s taught me to love unconditionally. I was a hard teenager to deal with. If I could take it back I would. But I can’t. What I can do is learn from how she continued to love me despite it all. I have a feeling I might need it- what are the chances that none of my four kids are not going to give me some heartache?!?
- She loves my dad and he’s her best friend. I have married my best friend I aim to keep him happy and show him how much I love him every day.
- She’s the money-lady. My mom has diligently kept the financial side of my parents’ companies going for 30+ years. She’s taught me how to save money and how to spend wisely. Many think I was brought up in a house where I got whatever I wanted. Ha. So far from the truth. My mom was pretty close to the budget-Nazi growing up. And while I was sometimes upset that I didn’t get to always have Tommy Hilfiger or Guess brand clothing (am I dating myself???), I sure am glad now that I got to experience that.
- She gives freely. Part of her above mentioned budgeting always went to either the church or to fundraisers, etc. I don’t remember her ever turning anyone down unless she had already bought more Girl Scouts cookies than our family could eat.
- She taught me to love to read. Not just because she read to me or made me read. She also was always reading and was always willing to help find me a book that I found interesting. This is something I worry about at our house because my books are now on my phone and iPad so it looks like to the kids that I’m “playing” while I’m really reading my book on my Kindle app.
- She loves family get-togethers and has hosted them almost every holiday for a long time, especially as my grandparents got older. Getting together with aunts, uncles, and cousins has always been a big part of our life.
- She’s taught me to party plan and to cook for others. This is similar to the above point but still a little different. It drives Garen (only a little) crazy but I love planning parties. I’m pretty sure the cooking doesn’t drive him crazy (unless he ends up cleaning it). I’m not as good as my Grammy or my Mom but I think, like them, I’m getting better with age.
I could probably go on and on but I’ll stop. She’s a pretty great Mom and an even better Mammy! Happy (not so) Tall Tale Tuesday! And thank you, Mom, for being a great Mom and friend.